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Post Cant handle it
I just need to let this out, i cant handle this anymore, i try to move on but its so hard, i went through so much and just cant move on, its been since jan and i just cant do it, Help me pls!! :? :( :( :( :( :(


Sun Oct 23, 2011 1:24 pm
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Post Re: Cant handle it
awww Hayleyjane! :( I feel for you love I really do.

Loosing a baby is the hardest thing any woman will ever go through. It is tough and it SUX! Just know that it will get easier to move on and every day you will think about your loss a little less.

Hope you're doing ok!

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Tue Oct 25, 2011 8:47 pm
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thanks hun its just so hard, i was ok for a little while but the post traumatic stress keeps coming back!! it just wont go away!! :( :(
so thankful for you reply and this forum!


Fri Oct 28, 2011 6:32 pm
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I'm so sorry sweetheart. It's so hard and overwhelming sadness can hit you at anytime.

I find myself the same months & years on from a loss/losses.

Have you talked to anyone about it?

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Fri Nov 11, 2011 10:49 pm
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yeah i had counselling etc, but she didnt really seem to help me that much, i hemhoraged 3 times in less than a week and lost 3.5 ltres of blood. i told her that i still cant pee with the door open etc as thats where it all happened, all she said was that i should pee with the door open and see how i go. the ambulance driver told my partner and i if i didnt let him put the drip in my arm then i would die, and from then on ive been so paranoid about even the slightest things and i feel for my partner as hes on the receiving end of my breakdowns, im looking further into more help around as the lady i had seen was useless!!


Mon Nov 14, 2011 9:27 pm
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Wow, she sounds useless.

I suggest looking for someone else, having someone who doesn't help you through this hard time isn't doing you any good. Are there support groups in your area?

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Tue Nov 15, 2011 10:45 pm
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ive looked but cant seem to find anything, im probably best going to talk to the doctor and she what else she can come up with

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Fri Nov 18, 2011 2:36 pm
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