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Kaz
Joined: Sun Sep 02, 2007 8:27 pm Posts: 66
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unfortunatley im back in here
Well this is my 4th miscarriage in 18mths, and im so gutted.
I started to miscarry this morning, i passed the baby about 2pm (in the middle of rhiannons 2nd birthday party).
i am off to the doctors nxt week to get a referral to the recurrent miscarriage clinic.
wish me luck
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Sat Apr 12, 2008 6:25 pm |
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TrinityClair
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Joined: Sat Jul 16, 2005 3:01 pm Posts: 1689 Location: Auckland
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Oh Kaz, thats aweful, I am so sorry, what a terrible time for it to happen (well, a terrible thing to happen at all) hopefully you can get some answers or help at the clinic (((hugs)))
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Sat Apr 12, 2008 6:32 pm |
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Kim
Joined: Fri Jul 15, 2005 8:43 pm Posts: 1315 Location: Whatawhata, Hamilton
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Oh Kaz, I am so sorry to hear your sad news.
Huge hugs babe
Kim
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Sat Apr 12, 2008 7:22 pm |
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Liam'sMum
Joined: Fri Feb 15, 2008 9:03 pm Posts: 528 Location: Christchurch
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Oh Kaz, big hugs Sweetie. I am really sorry to hear that.
Take care
xox
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Sat Apr 12, 2008 8:33 pm |
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Satori Star
Joined: Tue Jan 29, 2008 12:50 pm Posts: 708 Location: Auckland
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Hey Kaz,
I am so sorry to hear your news and wish from the bottom of my heart that things could have been different, Big Hugs sweetheart and I hope your little angels are looking out for you through this difficult time.
Yvonne
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Sat Apr 12, 2008 9:49 pm |
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GG's Mum
Joined: Wed Feb 13, 2008 9:04 pm Posts: 740 Location: Dunedin
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Hi Kaz, I am so sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you. Big hugs hon.
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Sat Apr 12, 2008 10:08 pm |
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Julia's Mum
Joined: Thu Dec 14, 2006 3:08 pm Posts: 1708 Location: Rotorua
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Oh Kaz sweetie, Huge hugs to you Hun, I too hope that you get the answers that you need at the clinic, and that you can finally have a good result at the end of it all IYKWIM?
Love and Hugs Hun
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Sun Apr 13, 2008 10:38 am |
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~*Telly*~
Joined: Thu Jul 14, 2005 8:06 pm Posts: 1455 Location: Auckland
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Oh honey i am so sorry to hear this happened to you AGAIN
Love and hugs doll - flick me a text when you are up to it
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Sun Apr 13, 2008 9:27 pm |
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Baby Beanie
Joined: Tue Feb 26, 2008 7:31 am Posts: 138 Location: Manukau City
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Really sorry to hear of your loss again. I feel really sick reading this, I wish you well for your next pregnancy...
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Mon Apr 14, 2008 2:46 pm |
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Lisa
Joined: Tue Nov 08, 2005 10:47 am Posts: 1106 Location: Auckland
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Kaz, Hugs babe.
That just sucks, I can not write what I would really like to write in a place like this. But I hope beyond all hope that you get some answers and if not answers as such some ways to help make a bubba stick!
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Tue Apr 15, 2008 6:38 pm |
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Kaz
Joined: Sun Sep 02, 2007 8:27 pm Posts: 66
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Thank you to everyone your support means a lot.
I found out today that there is no longer a recurrent miscarriage clinic in wellington, so there goes that idea.
the ob at the hospital is less than helpful, so am going to my doctor on friday to see where to go from here...looking at natural therapies, and will also be looking at being referred to the high risk clinic at wellington hospital.
so for the time being am taking a break for 2 mths just to focus on selling the house and moving.
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Tue Apr 15, 2008 9:12 pm |
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angelbaby
Joined: Wed Jul 20, 2005 10:44 pm Posts: 1117 Location: Auckland, NZ
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Kaz, I am so sorry to hear that you have suffered yet another miscarriage, my heart goes out to you
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Angel Riley Born Sleeping, 38wks
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Tue Apr 15, 2008 9:52 pm |
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Kaz
Joined: Sun Sep 02, 2007 8:27 pm Posts: 66
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To my darling angel,
Cruely on April 12th 2008 i miscarried, I was just 8wks, we had seen your heartbeat and although it was a little slow, we were lead to believe that things might just be okay, but sadly it wasnt too be.
You are our 4th angel since October 06 and our hearts are just breaking more and more, I know that you will come back to us, i just wish that you would stay.
I am looking forward to the day that your daddy and I hold you in our arms and gaze at your face.
Please come back to us, you have a wonderful big sister here waiting for you and a mummy and a daddy who love you lots.
Until we meet again
Love Mummy
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Mon Apr 28, 2008 12:10 am |
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Satori Star
Joined: Tue Jan 29, 2008 12:50 pm Posts: 708 Location: Auckland
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Oh Kaz
What a beautiful letter to your wee angel.
((((Hugs))))) to you sweet.
My heart goes out to you, and I completely understand you wishing your angel back, as I feel the same way about Satori
I hope the road ahead is kind to you, and I wish you all of the babydust and sticky vibes I can muster up, as I am sure everybody else on this forum does.
Take Care
Yvonne
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Mon Apr 28, 2008 9:41 am |
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GG's Mum
Joined: Wed Feb 13, 2008 9:04 pm Posts: 740 Location: Dunedin
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Kaz, that is beautiful.
Thinking of you and sending you best wishes.......
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Mon Apr 28, 2008 11:41 am |
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*lynne*
Joined: Mon Jul 18, 2005 8:39 pm Posts: 771 Location: dunedin
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Just beautiful Kaz, thinking of you daily hun!
love all the way
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Mon Apr 28, 2008 10:56 pm |
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Kaz
Joined: Sun Sep 02, 2007 8:27 pm Posts: 66
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Thanks guys.
I have bounced back physically, but for some reason this time mentally im just taking a bit longer...and im wondering if its because we have to wait for 2 cycles before ttcing again...so it means that i actually have to think about it and process it.
I am finding that im quite numb to the idea of ttcing, and i just dont want Kent to touch me...which is really hard on him....but i sat down with him the other night and told him how i was feeling and he was fantastic...i dont knwo where i would be without him
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Tue Apr 29, 2008 9:05 am |
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Mia's Mummy
Joined: Tue Apr 15, 2008 5:17 pm Posts: 151 Location: Auckland
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Hi Kaz, I'm so glad your DH is being so understanding, supportive and wonderful. It really makes such a difference to have that kind of support. Not sure how I'd cope if my DH wasn't as gentle and considerate as he is.
It's good to hear that you are doing well physically, as for emotionally it is completely understandable that you feel that way you do, just take the time you need and be gentle with yourself.
Lots of
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