Hi ladies
Havn't been in this Forum for a while now, and its not much fun to be back. Its not for myself this time, but a friend who had a M/C this week.
My DH and I have a good friend who we don't see often anymore (as she lives in Akl now), she got married earlier in the year and has been TTC since. About a week ago SIL told us in confidence that this friend was pregnant, but still waiting to tell everyone so we wern't supposed to know. Now we find out that at her 12 wk NT scan this week they found no heart beat, which is almost exactly what happened with me but a bit later on so we had told everyone already.
I feel so damn sad for them both, but I don't feel that we can call or anything, being that we aren't supposed to know.
Not only that but I feel real guilty for being this pregnant just now as I know how I felt about peggy ladies when I had lost my baby (called them SB's - Smug Bellies - for a long time).
What should I do? Just hope that she eventually tells us and carry on like nothing has happened in the meantime?
Oh this is horrible, what a truly crap situation to be in.
Lizzie