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Anya's Mum
Joined: Thu Apr 03, 2008 10:31 pm Posts: 5
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Needed to Vent
I haven't posted anything for ages, really since the first introduction but have been on line reading a lot....We lost our first baby Anya in October 2007 and are now expecting our second baby...I am 23 weeks and things are going well but am scared, I find it really hard to plan for baby after loosing Anya...but my vent today is.... a guy I work with (and there is only 5 of us) became an Uncle today and I asked what they named her...and they named her Anya. I went red and changed the subject....I was quite hurt, it is not a common name in fact I only know of one other Anya and she is in her 30's I felt like asking where they found the name but didn't... everyone in the smoko room said nothing, the name subject was changed quickly...I know we don't have exclusive rights to the name but I just felt it was really insensitive and am pissed off.... I am just being stupid...??
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Mon Dec 01, 2008 4:43 pm |
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Julia's Mum
Joined: Thu Dec 14, 2006 3:08 pm Posts: 1708 Location: Rotorua
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Re: Needed to Vent
Oh Sweetie you are most definitely NOT being stupitd!!! FOr you the name Anya has such special meaning, and for this guy to just blurt it out like that is cruel. It was obvious by the others reactions in the staff room that he had been thick and not thinking, it sounds like even they were shocked. Not much advice here, just wanted to give you a
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Tue Dec 02, 2008 7:56 am |
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queenbean
Joined: Tue Mar 25, 2008 9:18 am Posts: 449
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Re: Needed to Vent
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Tue Dec 02, 2008 8:39 am |
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Jessie78
Joined: Sun Aug 03, 2008 11:49 pm Posts: 128 Location: West Auckland
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Re: Needed to Vent
Not stupid at all hun, what a shock to learn they'd named their baby the same! All the best with your pregnancy, yes it is a scary time.
_________________ Jess, mum to Xander 5yrs, Emily 3yrs, and Darien stillborn at 28+4 on 16th June 08 from a Concealed Placental Abruption. Our new hope Lorelai born May 5th 09!
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Tue Dec 02, 2008 4:16 pm |
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Satori Star
Joined: Tue Jan 29, 2008 12:50 pm Posts: 708 Location: Auckland
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Re: Needed to Vent
OMG!!! - Did he know that you had called your little girl Anya?? If so what a horrid thing to do -especially just throwing it out there in front of everybody I so understand how you must be feeling (((Hugs))))
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Tue Dec 02, 2008 9:45 pm |
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GG's Mum
Joined: Wed Feb 13, 2008 9:04 pm Posts: 740 Location: Dunedin
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Re: Needed to Vent
I just wanted to give you a hug too
_________________ Tracey
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