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TrinityClair
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Joined: Sat Jul 16, 2005 3:01 pm Posts: 1689 Location: Auckland
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Sick to my stomach & don't know what to do
I just got an e-mail from Onewhosoars (Calypsos Mummy), she said someone had stolen a photo of Trinity, edited it, lied and said it was her daughter and posted it on Gonetoosoon. I feel so gutted, ripped off, sick, angry, upset, scared, really really hurt, I'm actually lost for words. I'm trying to wade my way through all the photos there and try to find it and see if I can do anything about it. i know this kind of thing happens, but it's just another one of those things that you hear happening to 'other' people, once again, I am that 'other' person
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Tue Dec 02, 2008 4:18 pm |
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GG's Mum
Joined: Wed Feb 13, 2008 9:04 pm Posts: 740 Location: Dunedin
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Re: Sick to my stomach & don't know what to do
Oh Manda, thats just horrible, I don't know what to say - Sending you a big hug.
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Tue Dec 02, 2008 4:30 pm |
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Jessie78
Joined: Sun Aug 03, 2008 11:49 pm Posts: 128 Location: West Auckland
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Re: Sick to my stomach & don't know what to do
Oh yuck, how terrible Manda!!! How dare they! I've heard of it happening a few times unfortunately- there's some sick demented attention-seeking people out there
_________________ Jess, mum to Xander 5yrs, Emily 3yrs, and Darien stillborn at 28+4 on 16th June 08 from a Concealed Placental Abruption. Our new hope Lorelai born May 5th 09!
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Tue Dec 02, 2008 4:50 pm |
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TrinityClair
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Joined: Sat Jul 16, 2005 3:01 pm Posts: 1689 Location: Auckland
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Re: Sick to my stomach & don't know what to do
I think my only consolation is thinking that perhaps there's a good reason?????? Maybe whoever it is has lost a baby but didn't get photos, in which case I should be proud that she thought my baby was beautiful enough to pass of as her own????? I don't know, i still want to find it and see what has been written.
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Tue Dec 02, 2008 5:17 pm |
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Jessie78
Joined: Sun Aug 03, 2008 11:49 pm Posts: 128 Location: West Auckland
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Re: Sick to my stomach & don't know what to do
I know a lot of SandsUK ppl use GTS, if you know the photo used, you could post it there and ask ppl to help find it on GTS ? Just a long shot I know?
_________________ Jess, mum to Xander 5yrs, Emily 3yrs, and Darien stillborn at 28+4 on 16th June 08 from a Concealed Placental Abruption. Our new hope Lorelai born May 5th 09!
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Tue Dec 02, 2008 5:21 pm |
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TrinityClair
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Joined: Sat Jul 16, 2005 3:01 pm Posts: 1689 Location: Auckland
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Re: Sick to my stomach & don't know what to do
Thanks Jess, I just might look into that. If anyone else wants to do some sleuthing by chance then it's the second pic in the photo album, this one: http://thelostones.co.nz/album/images/trinity1.jpg
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Tue Dec 02, 2008 5:26 pm |
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Liam'sMum
Joined: Fri Feb 15, 2008 9:03 pm Posts: 528 Location: Christchurch
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Re: Sick to my stomach & don't know what to do
Oh that is SO SICK of someone to do that. Good on you for thinking positively about their reasons for using the photo - but still, I can't believe someone would do that. Will definitely join in the hunt to try and find it for you.
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Tue Dec 02, 2008 5:31 pm |
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GG's Mum
Joined: Wed Feb 13, 2008 9:04 pm Posts: 740 Location: Dunedin
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Re: Sick to my stomach & don't know what to do
I'll snoop around and see if I can see anything too.
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Tue Dec 02, 2008 6:24 pm |
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Sassy Shells
Joined: Sat Jul 23, 2005 1:19 am Posts: 78 Location: Cairo, Egypt
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Re: Sick to my stomach & don't know what to do
Big hugs Sis, i'm totally lost for words !!! xx
_________________ The very proud mummy of Isla Francesca. Proud Aunty of 4 nieces and 4 nephews: Jordan, Zinnia, Carmen, Trinity Clair, Loralei, Jamie, Gabriel & Daniel
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Tue Dec 02, 2008 7:08 pm |
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Satori Star
Joined: Tue Jan 29, 2008 12:50 pm Posts: 708 Location: Auckland
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Re: Sick to my stomach & don't know what to do
Manda, that really sucks!!!!! I cannot imagine what would motivate somebody to do this I'll have a go at looking too
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Tue Dec 02, 2008 9:41 pm |
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OnewhoSoars
Joined: Thu Mar 27, 2008 12:16 am Posts: 69
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Re: Sick to my stomach & don't know what to do
I hope it's ok I pop back in here. I'm glad I went with my gut. With the amount of editing she did to Trinity's photo and she took out the Gizmo. But I kept thinking 'I know that baby I know that baby' So I googled 'Lost Baby Girls' and it popped up on page like 28. And then it clicked. Please I urge you all to look at these sites and see if anyone else's child looks familiar http://beautiful.baby.lily.gonetoosoon.org/http://beautiful.baby.hope.gonetoosoon.org/memorial/ (The wee one she stole a pic of in this one looks familiar but I'm unable to find mummy yet) http://beautiful.baby.hollie-mae.goneto ... /memorial/http://beautiful.baby.skye.gonetoosoon.org/memorial/http://beautiful.baby.star.gonetoosoon.org/ This lady has so many people on GTS so very very upset. Also the persons IP has been banned and their user removed. The sites are still up so that hopefully all the REAL parents of these babies can be found and shown what happened
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Wed Dec 03, 2008 3:59 am |
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TrinityClair
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Joined: Sat Jul 16, 2005 3:01 pm Posts: 1689 Location: Auckland
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Re: Sick to my stomach & don't know what to do
It's totally ok for you to pop back in here, and thank you so much. I've just checked out all those links and they all say that the memorial has been removed, job well, done. I just hope she doesn't use the pictures anywhere else. What's the point of doing something like that, I don't get it? Thanks for letting us know Melissa, and please come back whenever you like.
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Wed Dec 03, 2008 7:29 am |
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Anya's Mum
Joined: Thu Apr 03, 2008 10:31 pm Posts: 5
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Re: Sick to my stomach & don't know what to do
I am so shocked and would be devastated if that happened to me...Like you said you hope it is someone who lost their baby and never had a photo......thinking of you....
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Wed Dec 03, 2008 8:37 am |
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OnewhoSoars
Joined: Thu Mar 27, 2008 12:16 am Posts: 69
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Re: Sick to my stomach & don't know what to do
Unfortunately I have one more to ask of you http://www.christianmemorials.com/tribu ... ed&id=7937 Do any of you know this wee girl and have an idea who her mummy is? This photo was stolen too and I know I've seen her but I don't know where and I want to let her mummy know what happened
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Wed Dec 03, 2008 8:56 am |
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Julia's Mum
Joined: Thu Dec 14, 2006 3:08 pm Posts: 1708 Location: Rotorua
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Re: Sick to my stomach & don't know what to do
OMG how can someone do that?!!! Manda, when I read your first post my heart hit my feet... to think that someone would do that to someone elses treasured memories is dispicable!!! I must admit that I did try to do a search too, but nothing came up for me either, so fingers crossed that the person who took Trinity's picture has had a wrap over the knuckles. Just told DH and he is baffled too...just shook his head and said there are some sickos out there. Melissa, the fact that you had the guts to tell Manda about this is admirable, unfortunately I cant help with identifying the last baby, but you are right there is something familiar about her. Hope that you can track down the parents soon.
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Wed Dec 03, 2008 9:32 pm |
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smurf_girl
Joined: Tue Sep 02, 2008 12:02 am Posts: 123
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Re: Sick to my stomach & don't know what to do
That is so horrible, I can't believe that someone would do that. Actually I am quite disgusted that someone would do that. Your presious memories being passed off as someone elses is just not on.
I tried to open those links but I couldn't (kept saying an error had occured and timing out), does that mean she has been found out and the sites have been taken down.
_________________ Becks mum to,
Andrew (23/04/04) Joshua (14/02/07) our little valentine and an angel in heaven (20/10/01)
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BouncyNz
Joined: Sun Jun 15, 2008 1:52 am Posts: 229 Location: Invercargill
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Re: Sick to my stomach & don't know what to do
I cant believe anyone would do that, I went snooping last night but couldnt see much, I ended up making a Memorial for William while I was there, tried to log on earlier but wouldnt let me, finally tried again now and its back but noticed something like 40 babies have been removed so hoping things will work out.
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Thu Dec 04, 2008 1:41 am |
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OnewhoSoars
Joined: Thu Mar 27, 2008 12:16 am Posts: 69
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Re: Sick to my stomach & don't know what to do
I contacted the mommy through the christian memorials page. But haven't heard back. I hope it's her current email. If not I'll just have to continue my life and hope at a later date I find her again.
The lady who stole Trinity's photo we found out was a fake because she pretended she was in the hospital. Made up an account for her 'mom' and 'brother' and was all saying how their sister was injured and about to die. They stole a photo from a girl here in America who was deathly injured 7 years ago. WELL Turns out that the REAL girl who was injured's COUSIN is part of GTS. And so she proved it was fake.
After that it turns out about 6 people were fake (we think it was all the same person really though)
GTS IS a nice community though. We unfortunately have our jerks and fakes but that will happen almost anywhere even irl. One of the girls found out I was hoping to get Calypso 1000 candles lit on her site by Christmas so she proceeded to tell EVERYONE and even the admin lit a candle
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Dragonfly
Joined: Mon Sep 18, 2006 11:30 pm Posts: 666
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Re: Sick to my stomach & don't know what to do
OMG Manda, that's horrible and just plain wrong.
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Lisa
Joined: Tue Nov 08, 2005 10:47 am Posts: 1106 Location: Auckland
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Re: Sick to my stomach & don't know what to do
Ok now I just feel sickened that some sick person would do this. I mean I know it happens and happens a lot we found one out on TM ages ago too. sick sick sick, may Karma get them.
Is there anyway of having our photos watermarked?? Makes them very very hard to edit and be stolen.
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Sun Dec 07, 2008 9:38 am |
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Sarahlou
Joined: Tue Nov 11, 2008 4:26 pm Posts: 1
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Re: Sick to my stomach & don't know what to do
That is horrible... but I think you are right...in a way you should be proud that they think that your wee Trinity is beautiful enough to call there own...still doesnt make it right though... very, ver sad!
Take care
Have a great Xmas Saralou xx
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Wed Dec 24, 2008 1:44 pm |
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~*Telly*~
Joined: Thu Jul 14, 2005 8:06 pm Posts: 1455 Location: Auckland
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Re: Sick to my stomach & don't know what to do
Oh goodness Manda ((hugs)) Hope its all sorted now
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