smurf_girl wrote:
Seriously are some people that hurtful or do some just not think before they speak???
yep there are some people like that out there. I was in the supermarket a few days after I got out from hospital after we lost Georgia. I ran into the wife of one of the managers at work and she said that she was sorry for our loss and that "its natures way of getting rid of something that was not quite right"!! OMG I could have punched her. My GG was perfect in every single way. It was the placenta that didnt do its job. I havent really spoken to her since then and try and avoid her when she comes into work. Other comments I had were "oh well, it was not ment to be" and "well you can always try again" - excuse me?? Georgia can not be replaced.....
Unfortunatly people think they are saying something that will comfort you, but I think it would be better if some people didnt say anything at all.