The LOST Ones

Started TTC
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Author:  debs [ Mon Feb 16, 2009 10:06 am ]
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Just a quick post to say we have offocially started TTC!! Trying not to think about it too much but trying to stay positive that it will be a safe pregnancy this time.

Author:  AngelaKate [ Mon Feb 16, 2009 10:17 am ]
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Yay! A TTC buddy for me. Good luck and fingers crossed that you fall pregnant quickly. I've been charting my cycles using fertility friend which is really interesting. Let me know if that is something that you are keen to do. Good luck once again!


Author:  queenbean [ Mon Feb 16, 2009 2:29 pm ]
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Good luck ladies, lots and lots of babydust to you both!!!!!!! :D :D :D :D :D

Author:  Liam'sMum [ Mon Feb 16, 2009 4:37 pm ]
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Sending loads and loads of baby dust!!! Best of luck with the TCC and remember we are all here for you!!

Author:  Jessie78 [ Mon Feb 16, 2009 8:16 pm ]
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Best of luck and loads of baby dust to you both!

Author:  debs [ Wed Feb 25, 2009 11:16 am ]
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Im having a tearful day. Im not sure if its worse because Ezra's due date is less than 3 weeks ago or if its pms? or mabey both? Who knows i could even be pregnant but surely that couldnt be effecting my emotions yet? I just feel like it doesnt take much to put me in tears. We are having some unexpected financial stresses which isnt helping too, i know well get through those but im just not coping with it that well. Mabey i just need a good nights sleep. Im still surrounded by pregnant people which makes it hard a new lady just started my playcentre who looks like shes must be in her last couple weeks and 2 babies were just born a couple weeks ago. I dont know if i will cope being there with 3 newborns especially when theres only 10 families.
Anyway i just needed to vent that all out, only a week and il know if im pregnant or not.

Author:  Sarahjane [ Wed Feb 25, 2009 12:59 pm ]
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Hi Debs

I'm sorry you're having a teary day. Maybe something is going on because I have been having a teary day for the last three days!!! It seems that everytime I go out of the house I see a pregnant woman. They are blimmin everywhere. I think the hardest thing about it is that it makes you realise that you should still be pregnant and aren't anymore. Its just not fair. Are you excited about the fact that you may be pregnant or is it just scary? Take care of yourself and know that I am thinking of you.


Author:  Satori Star [ Wed Feb 25, 2009 9:37 pm ]
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Hi Debs & Sarah

:grphug: grieving for you lost angels is an extremely hard rollercoaster ride, and sometimes you feel like you are just a major trainwreck!!!! All I can say is that it is early days for you both, so be gentle on yourselves and just be how you need to be.

I remember feeling like I wasn't really grieving for the first few months, and I was really beating myself up about it, however looking back it took me 3mths to work through the shock, before I started working through the grief I felt. At 6mths I thought was dealing with things alot better and then DH went overseas on a conference for 10days. After about 6 days I lost the plot and felt like I was back at day one again :shock: I also suffered panic attacks about the things that could happen to my son and DH, and if either of them got sick (which they did) I have them to the doctor before they knew it :)

Debs, I wish you all the best for TTC, and I hope it happens quickly for you, but remember you have alot to deal with at the moment so don't put too much pressure on yourself (((Hugs))).

Sarah, its like we zone in on what we don't really want to see - re: newborns. I am currently awaiting results for a Down Syndrome test I have had and I keep seeing DS ads, and DS people/kids in random places. It kind of does your head in :roll: I also remember my first outing after losing Satori - to the supermarket - and wouldn't you know it - about 5 pregnant ladies and a newborn baby crying in the next isle. I just couldn't get out of there quick enough.

Anyway take care you two - and let us know how you are getting on/how you are feeling :)

Author:  AngelaKate [ Thu Feb 26, 2009 8:39 am ]
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Hugs debs. Hope that you are feeling better today. When do you think that you will be doing your pg test? Can’t be far away now. Thinking of you,


Author:  debs [ Thu Feb 26, 2009 12:47 pm ]
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thanks everyone, sarahjane im trying not to think about the fears that i know id have if i get pregnant, i can say that im definately feeling better about it now that i would've if i started trying last month which i had thought about but decided i wasnt ready. I would be happy if i was preganant but it will definatly be scary.
Angela the specialist recommened a midwife for me but she gets booked out really fast so the she reccomened i call her before im pg to see if i can meet her. The midwife is going to meet me on thurs so if i havent got af by then i will test thurs. Time for you to have a busy week or two with DH too! Hope you get a BFP this time :)
Yvonne hope all is going well with your pregnancy and the blood tests you were having done.

Author:  debs [ Tue Mar 03, 2009 3:44 pm ]
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My af was due sign of it yet...????...trying not to get my hopes up but I cant stop thinking about it!

Author:  AngelaKate [ Tue Mar 03, 2009 4:18 pm ]
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That is exciting! Are you going to pee on a stick? Fingers crossed that you get a BFP. :D

Author:  ~*Telly*~ [ Tue Mar 03, 2009 4:34 pm ]
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Oh how exciting!
FIngers crossed for a BFP!

Author:  debs [ Wed Mar 04, 2009 9:17 am ]
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well still no sign of going to meet a midwife tommorow so will 'pee on a stick' then,
if i dont decide i cant wait and do it today that is :lol:

Author:  Julia's Mum [ Wed Mar 04, 2009 10:15 am ]
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* I am the little voice inside your head do it,do it,do it,do it,do it,do it,do it,do it,do it,do it,*

Author:  debs [ Wed Mar 04, 2009 1:58 pm ]
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well i did the test and it was a BFN :(
why do our bodies play these cruel tricks on us...i swear i really thought i was pg

Author:  AngelaKate [ Wed Mar 04, 2009 7:18 pm ]
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Hugs deb. Sorry about the BFN. Hope the appointment with the midwife goes well and that you get a BFP next month. Thinking of you.


Author:  Julia's Mum [ Wed Mar 04, 2009 10:42 pm ]
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aww Deb that totally sucks sweetie. All the best for a BFP for next month.

Author:  Leonie [ Thu Mar 05, 2009 10:36 am ]
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:( :( :( sorry Debs.

Author:  Sarahjane [ Thu Mar 05, 2009 11:05 am ]
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Debs, I'm so sorry that you didn't get a positive result.

Author:  GG's Mum [ Thu Mar 05, 2009 8:27 pm ]
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Big hugs and fingers crossed for next month

Author:  AngelaKate [ Thu Mar 05, 2009 10:24 pm ]
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Hey Debs. How did the appointment with your midwife go?


Author:  ~*Telly*~ [ Fri Mar 06, 2009 11:37 am ]
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Oh honey - sorry you didn't get the result that you wanted

Author:  debs [ Mon Mar 09, 2009 4:09 pm ]
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Hi angela, sorry took so long to reply i deleted my post twice and have just been feeling quite down recently. The midwife app was ok, she seemed quite nice but doesnt take people due in dec/jan so i proberbly couldnt have her if i get pg in the next few months and im not going to wait till may ttc again. I noticed its day 28 for you today! So hoping you get some good news.

Author:  queenbean [ Mon Mar 09, 2009 4:53 pm ]
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Lots and lots of babydust for your next cycle Debs, and good luck if you are testing soon AngelaKate!!

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