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DH lost his D status last night.
I was watching Baby Borrowers, and there was a little girl on there called Bethany, she is just the cutest happiest little thing! Anyway, I said very casually "I bet Georgia would have been like that", just something that popped out, I didnt expect a reply but I got a "whatever". I then asked him if we could do something for her for next friday, her 6 month angel birthday. The response was "why bother". I remained calm and said that I was sorry he felt that way, he then said "its over, shes not here, we have another coming". Maybe I am making too much of it, but I felt as if he was replacing a car or something. I did tell him that I felt this way and he shrugged it off. WTF?? :angry:
Just had to vent.

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Fri Jul 04, 2008 11:52 am
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Tracey, he's a man. Look no further. They don't want to talk about what hurts.
My DH never talks about Chloe but he put her on top of our new drawers in our room, right in front of the bed.

Oh and DH can also be 'damned husband' ! ;)

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Fri Jul 04, 2008 12:08 pm
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Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus .... says it all! Don't take it to heart sweets, he is obviously dealing with it in his own way.

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Hi Tracey,

:bighug:

Sometimes they just don't get it do they? :roll:

All I can say is do what you want to on GG's 6mth anniversary - you never know he may just decide to join in on the day.

If not give him an uppercut! :lol:

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Just wanna pass on some hugs Tracey...I can;t understand the male brain sometimes (wait do they have a whole one??)
You do what you feel you must for your wee girl and maybe DH will come around...but its important for you ! Males have funny ways and styles of dealing with things aye

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Tracey, he's a man. Look no further. They don't want to talk about what hurts.
My DH never talks about Chloe but he put her on top of our new drawers in our room, right in front of the bed.

Oh and DH can also be 'damned husband' ! ;)

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Took the words right out of my mouth. You should just do something anyway, you might find he'll show a little interest. He is most likely really hurting deep down but doesn't want to show it. Corey did tell me once that he had to be strong for me which is why he didn't go to pieces.

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Thanks guys, I am not sure what I want to do tomorrow, I am working so won't be anything until the evening. I might just have a little "us time" and look at her pics and light her candle. If he wants to be part of that then great, if not, I'll let it go.

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(((((Big Hugs))))) Tracey.

I know today will be full of alot of conflicting emotions for you, so I just wanted to say I am thinking of you, and hope that the day is as kind as it can be to you. :(

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Well I am at work and emotions are all over the show. Unfortunatly I have to go to the hospital tonight to visit someone so will be there for a while instead of at home with GG. I asked DH to light her candle at 7pm for me, he thinks we should leave her candle until her 1st birthday, so I guess I will see what happens when I finally get home. I think he has a point there so I may just light another pretty candle I have.
It seems ironic that I will be at the hospital tonight, I just hope I can keep my composure there, I am visiting a sick grandfather I have never met. He has asked to see me :shock: but that is a whole other issue!

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Hi Tracey

I just felt that I had to respond to your message. I'm not sure what the "other issue" is with the sick grandfather, or how sick he is, but it just came to me that I had to let you know........greet him with lots of love & hugs, and talk to him about your angel, if you can take your candle with you and share lighting it with him.

Sorry, I know it sounds off the wall, :oops: but just had this voice telling me to leave you this message.

Sending peaceful thoughts your way to smooth the way
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Hey Hun, been thinking of you today, Have candle already to lite at 7 as I mentioned on msn. Hope to chat with you later. Take care Hayley


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Hey Tracey, Hope the day has been a bit better for you and your visit with your grandfather went ok. I will think of you at 7pm tonight and think of Georgia too.
Love and hugs from here

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Hi guys, thank you all. I didnt end up doing much for GG yesterday, just thought about her heaps.
I have only ever met my grandfather once, yesterday was the second time in my 30 years on the planet. It was awkward, didnt get a chance to say much to him because everyone else was there and he cant talk, has to write everything on a whiteboard.
Anyway, just wanted to say thinks for your kind thoughts.

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GG - pleased you made it thru the day and the visit in hospital. That would have been hard I would think!
Hope your weekend has been kind.
Did you light her candle or another one? Was thinking about you and your angel!
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