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TrinityClair
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Joined: Sat Jul 16, 2005 3:01 pm Posts: 1689 Location: Auckland
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Missing my girl - just a vent
I don't know if this post belongs here or in the stillbirth section, cause it's a bit of both. It's our 4th wedding anniversary today, and I don't know if it's that or the fact that I'm pg again, but I'm finding myself missing Trinity quite badly today. Is it because she was meant to be with us today? or is it because I feel like she might think I'm trying to replace her with this new baby? I knew that I'd feel like this regardless of when I managed to fall pg again, I guess maybe it's just worse today because of our anniversary. I miss her so much, I'd give anything to hold her again. I find myself asking Trinity to watch over her little brother or sister, and asking the baby I'm carrying to grow healthy and strong. Oh well, I guess I just needed a little vent.
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Thu Sep 08, 2005 9:22 am |
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angelbaby
Joined: Wed Jul 20, 2005 10:44 pm Posts: 1117 Location: Auckland, NZ
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Hi Manda,
Happy Anniversery
Your feelings are completely normal as I'm sure many women who have gone on to have a subsequent pregnancy would tell you. It's ok to to feel sad and miss Trinity and also at the same time feel excitment for your little one within you.
I too, ask Riley to watch over this one and ask this bubs to grow strong and healthy.
Here's a (((HUG))) for you.
Take care
Jacqui
_________________ DD Tylar 10
Angel Riley Born Sleeping, 38wks
14 angels M/C
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Thu Sep 08, 2005 10:18 am |
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nicoles mom
Joined: Sat Jul 23, 2005 8:08 am Posts: 716 Location: Caribbean
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I have been thinking about you today. I thought that you might have a hard time. Trinity knows that you love her and she would want a brother or sister, just remember that. Her new brother or sister has a gorgeous angel watching over them.
(((hugs)))
Jenn
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Thu Sep 08, 2005 10:20 am |
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~*Telly*~
Joined: Thu Jul 14, 2005 8:06 pm Posts: 1455 Location: Auckland
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Oh Hun
I'm not sure what to say, but know that many woman feel like then when they go on to have another pregnancy after a stillbirth/mc.
I hope you and Corey have a nive wedding anniversary.
((hugs))
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Thu Sep 08, 2005 10:30 am |
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Jenson's Mummy
Joined: Fri Sep 02, 2005 6:08 am Posts: 122 Location: UK
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Hi Manda
Happy Anniversary to you and Corey.
I have been thinking alot about you too, and Jacqui. I have been trying to imagine myself pregnant again and i don't know how i will cope with all the rollercoaster of emotions that i expect will come with it. Tbh it terrifies me.
I do feel for you, you are in my thoughts and I hope you do have a lovely day with your D/H
(((HUGS)))
Nikki
_________________ Our little baby girl Jenson - stillborn 38.3wks
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Thu Sep 08, 2005 2:09 pm |
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Ally
Joined: Tue Aug 02, 2005 11:42 pm Posts: 664 Location: Auckland
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Manda,
Happy Anniversary......
Times like this are hard, birthdays, anniversary's, xmas, and easter, all the times when Trinity should be with you celebrating. I hope the day hasn't been too hard on you, and you have managed to enjoy it a little.
Looking forward to catching up with you tomorrow.
Ally
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Thu Sep 08, 2005 5:39 pm |
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Kim
Joined: Fri Jul 15, 2005 8:43 pm Posts: 1315 Location: Whatawhata, Hamilton
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Manda sorry this is late
Happy anniversary babe
Huggles
Kim
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Sat Sep 10, 2005 8:43 am |
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*lynne*
Joined: Mon Jul 18, 2005 8:39 pm Posts: 771 Location: dunedin
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I'm abit late too...Hope you both had a great day!!
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