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Julia's Mum
Joined: Thu Dec 14, 2006 3:08 pm Posts: 1708 Location: Rotorua
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Sad news in Carley's world...
Hi all, well I thought I had better let you know the news in my world. My Mum has been diagnosed with ovarian cancer that has spread to her liver. She found out on Sunday, they did a scan and the main tumor meausres 15x14cm big and there are two more nodes on the liver, they have done a biopsy and are waiting for the results, but the Drs have said that they are 95% certain that it is cancer. The plan of attack is for them to remove the main tumor and the ovary (she had a hysterctomy(sp) years ago and they left the ovaries behind), then she will have to go through a course of chemo to kill the other two. So please send all of your spare prayers skyward to all of our angel to please keep and eye on Mum. I spoke to Julia and Lisa last night and asked them to keep a close eye on her too.
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Tue Nov 10, 2009 9:21 pm |
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smurf_girl
Joined: Tue Sep 02, 2008 12:02 am Posts: 123
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Re: Sad news in Carley's world...
to you Carley, hopre it all goes well and they get it all out. Those words you had with Julia and Lisa will help.
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Kim
Joined: Fri Jul 15, 2005 8:43 pm Posts: 1315 Location: Whatawhata, Hamilton
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Re: Sad news in Carley's world...
Huge hugs to you both babe
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Wed Nov 11, 2009 9:14 am |
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Dragonfly
Joined: Mon Sep 18, 2006 11:30 pm Posts: 666
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Re: Sad news in Carley's world...
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TrinityClair
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Joined: Sat Jul 16, 2005 3:01 pm Posts: 1689 Location: Auckland
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Re: Sad news in Carley's world...
You know I luffs ya. Huge hugs for you and ya Mum hun, keep us posted and I know I keep saying it, let us know if there's anything you or MummyG need. I'm sure you'll be up to se her soon enough, so let us know when you are and we'll get together. Mwah
Oh ETA, this TOTALLY SUCKS THE BIG FAT KUMERA in my books, sorry to any believers (God that is), but faith comes hard for me, IF there is a God, I'm gonna kick his heaven'y arse when I get up there.
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Wed Nov 11, 2009 4:51 pm |
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Leonie
Joined: Thu Mar 20, 2008 10:59 am Posts: 118
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Re: Sad news in Carley's world...
Carley That sucks. Just what you guys dont need. Try to stay positive. I'll be hoping and praying that it all goes according to plan.
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Wed Nov 11, 2009 6:21 pm |
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debs
Joined: Tue Nov 11, 2008 7:10 pm Posts: 224
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Wed Nov 11, 2009 7:32 pm |
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GG's Mum
Joined: Wed Feb 13, 2008 9:04 pm Posts: 740 Location: Dunedin
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Re: Sad news in Carley's world...
Oh Carley, sending you and your mum big hugs. Manda, I'm with you on that one - my foot will be right there with yours.
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Wed Nov 11, 2009 8:18 pm |
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~*Telly*~
Joined: Thu Jul 14, 2005 8:06 pm Posts: 1455 Location: Auckland
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Re: Sad news in Carley's world...
OH Carley I am truly sorry to hear this. Sending you the biggest hugs and love
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Wed Nov 11, 2009 8:20 pm |
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queenbean
Joined: Tue Mar 25, 2008 9:18 am Posts: 449
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Wed Nov 11, 2009 10:24 pm |
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J,K,A Mummie
Joined: Fri Jun 06, 2008 12:02 am Posts: 14
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Re: Sad news in Carley's world...
Hugs to you and your family Carley
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Wed Nov 11, 2009 10:50 pm |
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BouncyNz
Joined: Sun Jun 15, 2008 1:52 am Posts: 229 Location: Invercargill
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Re: Sad news in Carley's world...
aww big hugs sending my thoughts to you and your mum, sending speedy and successful vibes
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Thu Nov 12, 2009 12:31 am |
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natanddylan
Joined: Sat Apr 25, 2009 3:30 pm Posts: 256
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Re: Sad news in Carley's world...
Big hugs Carley! That sux big time. And if he does exist, maybe it's time we voted him out!?!?!?!
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Fri Nov 13, 2009 5:46 pm |
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Satori Star
Joined: Tue Jan 29, 2008 12:50 pm Posts: 708 Location: Auckland
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Re: Sad news in Carley's world...
OMG Carley that is shocking news! Let your Mum know I am thinking of her, and that if there is anything I can do to let me know. to you and your family sweet, and I am thinking of you all. Whay do such crap things happen to such nice people!!!! Its just not fair!!!!! Take Care
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TrinityClair
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Joined: Sat Jul 16, 2005 3:01 pm Posts: 1689 Location: Auckland
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Re: Sad news in Carley's world...
Hi all, Carley asked me to update you all. Carleys Mum will most likely be having surgery tonight (23/11) as it is now suspected she has bowel cancer not ovarian so they need to work fast. Please send your love, prayers and thoughts to Carley and her Mum through this stressful time. Carley, we love you hun, you've beena huge support to many of us, let us be there for you now.
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Mon Nov 23, 2009 6:06 pm |
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debs
Joined: Tue Nov 11, 2008 7:10 pm Posts: 224
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Re: Sad news in Carley's world...
Carley my thoughts are with you and your family, I hope the operation goes even better than the doctors could of hoped. Huge Hugs Love from Debs xoxoxo
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Mon Nov 23, 2009 6:49 pm |
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natanddylan
Joined: Sat Apr 25, 2009 3:30 pm Posts: 256
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Re: Sad news in Carley's world...
Thinking of you and your family Carley!
Huge hugs love
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Mon Nov 23, 2009 7:50 pm |
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~*Telly*~
Joined: Thu Jul 14, 2005 8:06 pm Posts: 1455 Location: Auckland
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Re: Sad news in Carley's world...
Aww honey ((hugs)) love and hugs from Telly
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Mon Nov 23, 2009 7:53 pm |
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queenbean
Joined: Tue Mar 25, 2008 9:18 am Posts: 449
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Re: Sad news in Carley's world...
Thinking of you Carley and family xxxxxxxx
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Mon Nov 23, 2009 10:58 pm |
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Satori Star
Joined: Tue Jan 29, 2008 12:50 pm Posts: 708 Location: Auckland
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Re: Sad news in Carley's world...
Awww Carley,
I'm thinking of you and your Mum and hoping that all has gone well.
Love and Hugs
Take Care
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Tue Nov 24, 2009 9:28 pm |
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Julia's Mum
Joined: Thu Dec 14, 2006 3:08 pm Posts: 1708 Location: Rotorua
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Re: Sad news in Carley's world...
Hi all, well it is time for an update. Mum ended up having surgery on Tuesday. My sister and I drove up to Auckland on Tuesday morning, after picking up Manda's portacot, Thanks for the loan of that Manda it was one less thing for me to think about packing. Got to Aucks at 12.30pm, and then sat around watching the clock for the next few hours. Four hours in surgery and two hours in recovery, we got the call that Mum was back on the ward. We went up to see her, OMG what a shock to see your mother looking so frail , turns out that the cancer was on the ovary not the bowel like they had thought, but it had spread to the other ovary, so they removed both of them, but because the inital tumor was so large it had pressed on her bowel and a big section of that had died so they had to remove that part, and alas she now has a colostomy bag for the rest of her live. But as Mum put it on Wednesday, atleast she is still here to see her family. The Drs were a bit worried about her urine output on Wednesday so they told her to drink four litres of water and they put a catheter in to see what was going through, not alot came through, but she was soo dehydrated that it was all going back into her system. Mum said that she was soo dehydrated that she looked like an emaciated model, you could see all of her bones on her ribcage and her collarbones too. She has lost an incredible amount of weight, she not only has batwings on her upper arms but has them on her forearms too . We now have to wait until Monday when the Drs will come back with the results from the tests that they have done on the tumor as to what type it was and how much chemo etc she will need. The two that are on her liver are still there, as once it goes to the liver they cant remove them, only kill them off with chemo. So she still has a long road ahead of her, but she is in a positive frame of mind and is a very determined lady.
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~*Telly*~
Joined: Thu Jul 14, 2005 8:06 pm Posts: 1455 Location: Auckland
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Re: Sad news in Carley's world...
Honey - I am not sure what to say - but really want to send all my thoughts and love to you, your mum and the rest of your family. (((((((hugs)))))
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Sat Nov 28, 2009 3:21 pm |
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Julia's Mum
Joined: Thu Dec 14, 2006 3:08 pm Posts: 1708 Location: Rotorua
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Re: Sad news in Carley's world...
thanks Chook, it has been a emotional week thats for sure.
And ((hugs)) to you too, you know we are here if you need us.
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Sat Nov 28, 2009 3:26 pm |
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GG's Mum
Joined: Wed Feb 13, 2008 9:04 pm Posts: 740 Location: Dunedin
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Carley - thinking of you and your family. Its a hard road ahead as I imagine you know, remember we are here every step of the way with you. Big hugs
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Sun Nov 29, 2009 4:36 pm |
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*lynne*
Joined: Mon Jul 18, 2005 8:39 pm Posts: 771 Location: dunedin
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Re: Sad news in Carley's world...
hugs hun....Thinking of you all and hope the next update is a goodie and she wont need a huge amount of ongoing treatment. Loves all the way
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