Oh Telly I am so sorry. I know how heartbreaking it is to get af.

Hi Telly,

So sorry to hear AF showed up and early.

I guess on the bright side it means you can give it another go sooner.

I'm using the OPKs now and no clear result yet. I am CD 13/14 today.

Hope you are having a better day.
m

Sorry AF showed up Telly
Hope things happen real soon for you

Take care
Jacqui

Big hugs babe, I am so sorry that another month isnt successful.

BIG (((HUGS))) to you and family.

Telly, sorry to hear you got AF. Our miracle baby (that we lost) took 11 months to conceive, and I can well remember how much it hurt every single month without fail to have the Hag show up.

Re: the luteal phase thing - mine is always 10-11 days (according to my BBT charts) and I talked to my GYN about it and he seemed to think it wasn't a problem. The Ob GYN that did my d an c said that many fertility docs don't believe that luteal phase defect even exists, and that many of us actually O a day or 2 earlier than our charts?OPK's indicate.

I don't know how much of it is true, but thought I would share.

I haven't written in here for awhile I see.

I might have some news soon - but at the moment I have nothing to share....

Will update you all when I can.....

Ooooh sounds exciting!

All crossables crossed for you Telly, will be watching this space......

Have posted this on other board - but posting here too.

Yay!

I tested last Tuesday, and those two lines came up, faint, but there all the same.

On Wednesday I looked for a midwife, and booked her in for Thursday at 2 pm. In the meantime I got a case of the panics, and went to the shop and brought another test - which was stronger and come up quicker than the one I did the day before.

Thursday, my midwife came around, she's just absolutely lovely. Gave me a form to get an altrasound done, which I'll do in a couple of weeks when DH is off work so he can watch Cameron, as he's a bit of a pain when it comes to sitting still. SO will be going on my own, but am keeping positive never-the-less.

We are a little unsure of dates, could be eight weeks or five-ish. We are probably only about five, but not sure if period was an actual period in Jan or an implant bleed - so the scan in a couple of weeks should clear a lot of things up.

Have been really warey about posting anything to date about this pregnancy so far - it hurt too much last time having to tell everyone there was no more baby. I was going to wait until baby was born - but I suck at secrets, and people hounding me all the time to see what the results were, and questioning my decision really annoyed me - and I figured if something happened - I need the support.

Was hard to believe at first, but is slowly starting to become more and more real each day. I worry that we are going to go through a repeat of last time, but I have to keep reminding myself that there is nothing I can do about it if it does - and that this is a different pregnancy - and this time the outcome is a baby.

We are trying to keep positive - at times its hard - and I worry about what the scans going to tell me - but yeah - you get what I mean.

So yeah, have been rambling on for awhile now, just thought I'd share here first - not comfortable doing it on any other boards yet - so please if you belong to other groups I do - no telling - that's my job - and I wanna keep it off there until we get past the safe (if there is one) period.

Cheers guys.

Telly

Thats fantastic Telly, CONGRATULATIONS, I know what you mean about being hopeless about keeping secrets and I told early for the same reasons, I figured if anything did happen I'd need the support, either way, you know you have it here, chin up, welcome to the roller coaster ride of subsequent pregnancy....

yay!!!! Just the sort of news to brighten my day. Congratulations babe!!!