Hi i am kind of a silent lurker on here but .....

i have a question to ask?

I am preggy with my third baby now and am still freaking out about my when i was preggy with Logan just because of what happened with him the scary part is this pregnancy has been exactly the same as Logans and then at my last scan to check baby's growth and check where the cord was it is wrapped around it's neck 3 times AT LEAST and i wasn't supposed to see specialist till 35 weeks but he done my scan report etc and has since told my midwife to bring my appt forward to my 32 week scan! To say the least my midwife has told me be prepared for baby to be early and make sure when i go to that appt to have my bag ready just incase!

Logan was fullterm 39w 4d stillborn because he had the cord round his neck with a true knot in it

Am i just being nuerotic? Am i mad for telling them i want it out for my own sanity because in the back of my mind i am just thinking i can't do this again?

Hi L&Ts Mum
I was probably told somwhere along the line you were pg again, but, I've been missing quite alot lately, so firstly, a huge congratulations Do you know what flavour you're having?

You are so NOT being nuerotic. I'm not sure about demanding bubs out yet, I guess that depends on what the specialist says, although, I don't blame you for wanting it out, I wanted G out at 37 weeks but for his sake, I fought against what I wanted. Your situation is totally different though. I'm sure they will take your history into consideration. Would they take bub so early for your sanity? Whens your appt?

I have to run, take care hun, lurk all you like, but lovely to hear from you, let us know how your appt goes....

Heya

At the latest bub will be out by 38 weeks they will never let me go past that if she is ok in there they will keep up with all the monitoring etc and if she dosn't untangle herself will be c-section at 37weeks! but if there is any chance things have changed midwife said she is coming out if the cord flow has changed all that sorta stuff! i really don't know what i want anymore! i think i am worrying to much about everything!

They think it's a girl but i not so sure plus my midwife thinks it's a boy lol! So i have all toby's stuff ready aswell and have very little in the way of girl stuff!

First Manda yip I telled you...hehe
And
Mara, Hoeny I know you probably do not want my input here again as you are probably getting sick of me telling you.
THIS BABY NEEDS OUT!!!
I have talked with heaps of the Neo staff (not saying who you are) and they all say the same thing, actually they are disgusted that they are leaving bub there. Not because of the history but just because of yours and our lil misses(baby) situation.
Mara, I wish I could be there and you so know I would have my go at them and make them get my niece here safe.
I Love you guys heaps and will be there where I can, oh and I got prem girls stuff you know is yours if you need it.

Lol yeh i think i gona have a go with them after this scan if they leave me to go to 37 weeks i am sick of the way i have been treated and if my midwife dosn't like it i will just find someone else who will take me on probably very difficult! i know i am demanding but hey don't i have a right they should understand this from where i am coming from my first son died as a result of the cord round his neck i know that it happens all the time babys born safely with cords round there neck etc but hey mine wasn't and i could not go through it again! I really hope my specialist is there this time and not sending his registrar or i will be f**ked off! They should also take into consideration the problems i had with toby once he was born aswell! Even if things are going well at scan things change very quickly in there and there thing is well if it's moving it's ok! I'm sorry that's not always the case! Logan was a lil mover and shaker thats how he got into his lil mess! The other thing that probably contributed to him dying was the fact his meconium was so thick it wasn't funny! It just freaks me out and what is it going to take for someone to fricken listen to me! Trust me Lis you know how i feel i want her out to! I want to know she is safe and she is safer out than in now because the stress is to much for me so i can't imagine what it's doing to her and then that freaks me out that i could be hurting her because i am stressing! arggggghhhhh what a fricken mess!
Lol bout the prem clothes i have some really lil stuff of Toby's and some 00000 stuff she'll still be small anyway both boys were only 6lbers i am guessing she'll be either logies size or smaller toby was my lil chub chub at 6lb 13oz